7 Tips for a Perspective on Writing College Essays

Still struggling with your College Application essay?

Well, which one is it – Personal story essay | Why an MBA | Why ‘this’ B-school essay? | Career Goals Essay | Leadership Essay | Teamwork Essay | Weakness/Failure/Setbacks Essay | Achievements essay | Challenges overcome/risks taken | Ethical Dilemma/social responsibility | Passion/Motivation/Initiative | Diversity/community | Additional information/extenuating circumstances | Undergraduate Application Statement of Purpose (SOP) | Master’s Application | The Common App Prompts…

Whatever the essay, remember: They are not asking you to change the world or be the next Steve Jobs; but they are certainly interested to know if you believe in your own brand.

Here are some tips to help you change your perspective: 

  1. College Essay writing = 30% writing skills + 70% thinking skills
  2. There is no fixed way to write
  3. The final essay can take multiple drafts, re-drafts and still may not be perfect! Keeping at it is important
  4. Pre-writing is as important as writing
  5. Your story is your strongest ‘hook’
  6. Giving more TIME betters the chances of a superb pitch
  7. Seek guidance. It is a process of mentorship that can really add value.

Watch the College Essay Impact presentation to know more.

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

See-Saw Parenting

Imagine you are on a see-saw. Now imagine you are on a see-saw with your four-year old. Would you just put all your weight on one side and let the little fellow hang in the air on the other side? Hopefully not! Instead, you would perhaps drop your weight and release it so as to give him a sense of going up and down on the balance. You would let him enjoy the light-heartedness of being in the air, and you would let him enjoy the feeling that he was being able to exert his own weight too! Smilingly surrendering.

Most parenting is similar to this see-saw experience. You are in-charge, yet you must be willing to let go.

You have the experience to be able to predict the outcome of a certain action, but you allow mistakes to be made, so that lessons can be drawn and your child too becomes experienced.

You enjoy their flight, but are also ready with a safety net (just in case).

You pretend to lose an argument, a decision, or a game only to be able to revel in the joy of seeing your child win.

You might have the resources to give her everything, but you need the wisdom to stop at something. And anytime you do feel the temptation to give your child ‘everything’ – remember the see-saw – remember that you are creating a situation for him/her to be in the air – but for how long ?!

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged , , , | Leave a comment

Are you a Working Parent?

Mother & daughter

I have been working all my life and logically so, when I become a parent, everyone around me said that now I am a ‘working – parent’. But very early into parenthood, I realised that the phrase was a lie! It was a put together in the reverse!

As soon as I decided to bring a new life into this world, I became a parent (who also happened to be working) – so actually I was now a ‘parent – working’ and not a working – parent. Within the same thought process, I figured that from hereon my primary identity would be that of a parent first. Ever since, without any regrets, I have been a parent – shopping, parent – napping, parent – teaching, parent – fighting, parent – banking, parent – driving, parent – sleeping, parent – negotiating, parent – cooking, parent – organizing, parent – travelling, parent – this … and parent – that! Come to think of it, parenting is the single most important role that determines the quality of our future citizens, how can we make it a part-time job!

And considering that it is indeed a full-time occupation, wonder how come our mere ability to procreate, makes us eligible for the job! Radhika Vaz’s article, Rotten Apples says it well – “I think that prospective parents should be subject to a written exam followed with an interview to assess their abilities to raise a responsible next generation…” Till such time, ask yourself if you are still a working – parent?

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged , , , , , | Leave a comment

Million Dollar Vision

Bengaluru, 28th June 2014: The hall was packed with people finding space on the aisles of the Sathya Sai auditorium – a hall that can seat close to 600! One could have mistaken it for the premier of a new Rajnikant flick; but it was the attendance for the book launch of Million Dollar Solopreneur, a path-breaking book born out of a life-changing idea by Serial Solopreneur, Sandeep Gupta.

This has turned out to be my fastest book project ever!

26th April 2014, when I stepped out of Sandeep’s Delhi office, I never really thought to myself that two months from then, we will be sharing a stage opportunity to launch his first book, and that too in the city of Bengaluru! The story of how it took shape is in the book.

For all those itching to write, it’s been super inspiring to see Sandeep work round-the-clock, churning out the book in less than two weeks! Yes, that’s right 80,000 words (brought down to 50,000) in less than a fortnight! For most of us, it would take even longer to decide on a job, a course, an idea, anything! Well, given his clarity of thought and single-minded determination to launch on the 28th of June, his birthday and also the day he wanted to unravel the secret to becoming a Million Dollar Solopreneur – simply meant that I had to work extra-hard to edit, make the book publishing ready & create book proposals to find a suitable publishing partner (who would be willing to publish and ship the books to Bangalore within the time frame)!

Well, where there’s a will, the way just shows up!

Fifteen days to the launch, and we found a committed, go-getter partner in Rajan Arya of Pentagon Press, who ensured that close to a thousand hard-bound, premium quality books were at the venue two days prior to launch!

The book was launched by Abhijit Bhaduri (Author, TEDx speaker, Training & Development Chief – Wipro Global), amidst a cosmopolitan gathering of professionals, executives, media personnel and many more. Let’s say, everyone interested in ‘attaining financial freedom for life’ – the tallest claim of the author, who confidently expresses that “if you implement the lessons taught in this book, you could be earning a million dollars in twelve months!”

As a professional speaker on both Indian and global stages, “Sandeep loves to propagate absolutely novel ideas with passion, rebellion, and wit,” shared Abhijit Bhaduri. Apart from his, Top-One-Percent GMAT Training that has helped thousands of students join Ivy-League Business Schools across the world. Harvard, Stanford, Wharton, Booth, Kellogg, MIT, LBS, and INSEAD, Sandeep is also the resident Ace Mentor at The Professional Speakers Academy London.

Over the years, I have worked on many books, but every once in a while a big idea comes along and we only hope and pray that it positively impacts more and more people around us. Million Dollar Solopreneur is a big idea. As an editor, it has been a reflective project not just deep-diving into the WHY and WHAT of the concept, but more importantly, the HOW of Solopreneurship.

My best moment from the launch was when Sandeep quipped, “Million Dollar Solopreneur is essentially for the professional who wants to fire his boss; someone who wants to have time for himself; someone who wants to make more money and impact people! Does that mean, you?” Everyone nodded. Bosses beware.


Posted in Uncategorized | 1 Comment

Dare to Apply to an Ivy League

Why is it that in a country where English is not spoken as widely as it is in India, the number of students accepted at the Ivies has increased three-fold in the last ten years. ‘The Chinese make up an impressive 27% of the population at the Ivies, while Indians comprised of 9.7% of all international students at the colleges.’

Ivy League, Admission

Asians at Ivy Leagues

Are Indians simply not interested? or Is it something more? Let’s assume that you are planning to create a B-School application and for the sake of argument, the following are a given:

  • You will get a high score at GMAT (750/800) (feels good right!)
  • You will qualify the English proficiency tests TOEFL/IELTS
  • You have academic grades that are decent
  • You have relevant work experience to boast of
  • You have at least two people who will give you a good recommendation
  • You can make a resume – it’s only facts in an order… Does this guarantee your place at an Ivy League?

Do the Admission guards at Princeton, Brown, Harvard pop-up their heads in delight and say, ‘Come, come dear ones, we were just waiting for you’ ? Perhaps Not.

Time and again, university representatives have shared how disappointing it is reading an application that reads high on numbers but is creatively ‘flat’. You can be a nerd, a drop-out, a wannabe pop-star, a space enthusiast, an editor, a sports junkie…who ever you are, it is important that your application reflects who you are and not just what you have achieved.

The important question is: Do you believe in your own brand?
And the only place where you get a chance to put yourself out there is in the College essays section. You say: ‘So what’s the big deal? We can write essays. We’ve been writing essays since grade three.’ Well that’s perhaps at the root of the problem. We are taught the Intro-Body-Conclusion format and told how to write? We are corrected, imposed upon, spell-checked, grilled on grammar and we even learn to write ‘model answers’ to the most asked essay topics! And then in the journey of our lives, we chance upon an Ivy League application and a question that asks us:
“If you could put a message in a bottle, what would it say?”
– Oops! Did I hear you say that this was not in the curriculum!

Does it matter now, how well you can write? OR How well can you think?

At the same time, there are essays like this one from Columbia Business School: Please tell us about yourself and your personal interests. The goal of this essay is to get a sense of who you are rather than what you have achieved professionally. (Maximum of 500 words)

No. No. No. Don’t just start drafting the answer as yet. Read it again and get into pre-writing mode (don’t know what that is? I will try and cover that in my next blog). What is important is to structure your thoughts and able to present the best and most honest representation of yourself.

So the fight is not between the dragons and the elephants, it’s the inner giant that needs to be awakened!

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged , , , , , , , , , | 3 Comments

Touched by Enlightenment

Some people are born as enlightened beings, they say.
Really? How come? Can’t be – is the response of someone rational, someone who believes in a higher consciousness perhaps, but is unable to accept it as being present in a human being. I was guilty of the same skepticism, until this afternoon.

I was invited to conduct a book launch ceremony. I was thrilled for many reasons. For one, the publisher, Wisdom Village, is like family, two, the book was on Lal Bahadur Shastri, an exponent of dignity and honour in Indian polity and the authors were none other than the legend’s son, Anil Shastri and my teacher & mentor for many years, Pavan Choudary. Ordinarily, this would have been just another book launch. But when His Holiness the Dalai Lama consented to launch the book, the scale of the event changed dramatically. As the master of ceremonies, I had been reading and collating my notes on the authors, the publisher, the book and His Holiness. Thanks to the information age, a lot was available online, it was like a divinity broadcast complete with an itinerary, a history and profile. I compiled my script and knew that the right protocols were imperative. But is it only about protocols and procedure?

The event started with the timely arrival of His Holiness and lighting of the lamp. My script was sharp, the speakers were thorough and the short film played without buffering. The photographer went click-click and I was keeping a tab on the tick-tock. As per schedule, His Holiness was invited to address the gathering that was so much more than the capacity of the hall.


I was expecting a discourse; I’m sure some were expecting a somber sermon. But what’s this – everyone was laughing! The enlightened one in orange robes seemed to love humour! He was sharing how Shastriji’s mind was so much bigger than his lean body! He himself laughed with effervescent vivacity. I watched in awe and wondered at the light-hearted and free flowing persona of this majestic being. Exemplifying and embodying peace leading to progress, one could see that His Holiness the Dalai Lama was more present to people than to protocol and procedure.

One could not seem to get enough of this witty Buddha. The youthful spirit of this 78 year old was shining across the hall. And as the event came to a closure, he got up to bless the people on the dias, in true Tibetan tradition – offering a white scarf (kata) around their neck. I stood at the podium witnessing the beautiful gesture; only to find him walking towards me with a kata. Without missing a moment, I moved forward, touched his feet and he placed the scarf around my neck. The silky white touched my hair, my arms and something deeper. There was stillness in that moment. There was contentment. There was an overwhelming wave of internal emotion and eternal gratitude that suddenly took over. I opened my eyes. He was heading towards the exit and I quickly resumed my position at the podium asking everyone to rise as His Holiness the Dalai Lama exits the hall. But did He?

Posted in Uncategorized | Leave a comment

Literary Pursuit Acknowledged

Literary Pursuit Acknowledged

Book Launch featured in the Hindustan Times, 3rd Jan 2014

Image | Posted on by | Tagged , , , | Leave a comment